86. Tom Waits, House Where Nobody Lives
Sometimes if we’re paying attention, we see how much pain some people are in—people we might otherwise find unpleasant or unfriendly, if we weren’t paying attention. Their faces are as grim and haunted as an abandoned house. This elegiac song gently reminds us what we already know: we get caught up sometimes chasing the hollow trappings of grandeur, but however fine and good life’s treasures may be, they are worthless without love. Tom Waits offers relief, and a road map: it may be the work of a lifetime to get good at giving and receiving love. But it’s everything.
“House Where Nobody Lives,” written and performed by Tom Waits, 1999.
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I lived in an empty house.. ( I decided I liked keeping it unfurnished and empty)..I realized after living there awhile, the empty house was haunted. The ghost that lived there ( a woman) was usually quiet
and would leave odd signs around when she made her presence known to me.
I stayed there for 3 years and felt an odd longing for her spirit the day I left the empty house.
Interesting composition. Theme of emptiness..
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