33. Joy Oladokun, Look Up
One benefit of trying to shed a lifelong habit of avoiding eye contact is you start to actually see people. People are amazing—little individual galaxies floating around, and you can read their inner constellations plainly in their faces. Some haul around pain, looking like a bag of wrenches, grimly not returning smiles. Learning not to take this personally, to have empathy for the pain-bearer, is one of life’s big wins. Likewise, generous, open expressions of goodwill can be found everywhere, in tiny interactions with strangers throughout one’s day. All these people, ready and willing to be kind. Look up.
Joy Oladokun, “Look Up,” 2021. Written by Joy Oladokun & Dave Bassett.
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Thank you...a good lesson, indeed...I appreciated the metaphors...
Interesting take on eye contact/floating galaxies!